Spouse or Child?

Who comes first in your life, spouse or kids?

I'm sorry but you would have to be a total selfish bitch to choose your spouse over your children. Kids will always come first. My child will always come first. That isn't saying that I don't care about my spouse or that my spouse would be completely pushed aside but that is my child. It is a product of our love and came from my blood, my body, and was a blessing upon me. My child will always come first because of many reason, a big one being that no matter how much love is in a relationship, a marriage, it can end over petty shit. My spouse could cheat on me, whether it be with his penis or his emotions. My spouse could just decide that he didn't want to be here anymore. People are fickle like that.. Men suck just to put it out there bluntly.

My child on the other hand will always be in my heart, will always be the first thing on my mind, and will always need, want, or come to me for life's big questions. I know that doesn't happen in every family and its probably cause their dumb ass parents put something before them, i.e. work, spouse, social obligations, old freaking dreams. GUESS WHAT! When you have a child it isnt about you anymore, I dont care what anyone else has to say about the matter. When you become a parent, you become a PARENT! That means you dont do the same shit you use to do when you had no responsibility. It doesn't mean you cannot have a life anymore, it means that you need to put your life second to theirs. They didnt ask to be born, you spread your legs and caused it to happen, and God (what ever God you believe in) saw fit to bless you with that child. Sometimes God takes that child back if he needs to but thats an entirely different conversation. You have a child, you did the deed to get the child, now grow the hell up and take care of that child cause it for damn sure deserves better than second rate to some penis or vagina that can only give you a few moments of passion. SORRY If I burst your bubble or hurt your feelings in anyway, its just what I feel and believe. YOUR CHILD SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST!

Shoot, if the whole zombie thing were to come about I would still choose my daughter over my spouse and I would want my spouse to choose my daughter over me. Children come first, they matter the most. Why cause they are innocent, they have a long future ahead of them, they have a whole thought process still unaffected by bullshit politics, trends, or someone elses agenda.